Women, you want to treat men better? Here’s a list to start with
Hey women, what are you planning to do better? Because you need to do better. Here are ideas on how you should treat men better.
- Women are strong, independent and can speak for themselves without the support of men. Don’t automatically expect men to talk to their friend who is “kind of a creep” at work and fix the problem for you. This isn’t 13th century Europe. You don’t get to direct men into confrontation with each other anymore. If you think someone has said/done something towards you that is against HR policy, report it to HR.
- Don’t talk over other people.
- If you are asked to be on a panel/team or to attend a specific event and see that it’s all women, say something. Maybe even refuse the spot!
- Learn to read a fucking room.
- Don’t call a man “creepy” in a professional setting, unless he’s actually done something wrong which you are prepared to report to HR and deal with formally.